Tulsa's Compatibility-First Dating Service
Discover Your Dating Personality
Find out your dating style and remove the frustration from dating
Answer 24 questions to reveal your SPARK type, compatibility style, and conversation starters.
Takes 4–5 min · Free · Includes shareable compatibility card
What is the SPARK Quiz?
The SPARK Quiz is a free 24-question compatibility assessment that reveals your dating personality type across four dimensions: Connection Pace, Lifestyle Rhythm, Emotional Processing, and Togetherness Style. It takes about 5 minutes and assigns you one of 16 unique SPARK types.
How does everyone get a match?
Every guest takes the SPARK Quiz before attending. We use your compatibility profile to curate the event guest list — so every person in the room is already compatible with at least one other attendee. Because the matching happens before the event, 100% of guests leave with at least one match. Most receive 2 or 3.
Is the quiz free?
Yes — completely free. There is no charge to take the quiz, receive your SPARK personality type, or get your compatibility insights. In-person Beyond The Sparks events are ticketed separately.
Where are the events held?
Beyond The Sparks is an independent dating-event company that hosts at welcoming, conversation-friendly venues across the Tulsa and Oklahoma City metros. Each event page lists its exact venue and address, so you always know where to go.
What are the 16 SPARK types?
SPARK types are 4-letter codes built from your quiz results across four dimensions: Connection Pace (F=Flame or E=Ember), Lifestyle Rhythm (A=Anchor or S=Sail), Emotional Processing (H=Heart or M=Mind), and Togetherness Style (W=Weave or V=Wave). Examples: FAHW — The Devoted Romantic, ESMV — The Sovereign Spirit, FSHW — The Adventure Lover.
How long does the quiz take?
About 5 minutes. It includes 20 personality questions and 4 readiness questions — 24 total. When you finish you immediately see your personalized SPARK type, compatibility insights, and conversation starters tailored to your personality.
Do I need to take the quiz before the event?
Yes — your SPARK type is how we build the compatibility-matched guest list. Without it, we can't include you in the pre-matching that makes the match guarantee possible. Take the free SPARK Quiz before registering for your event.
How is this different from speed dating?
Traditional speed dating puts random strangers in a room and hopes chemistry happens. Beyond The Sparks uses the SPARK Quiz to match attendees before the event. You're meeting people already compatible with you on four dimensions of personality. The result: everyone leaves with at least one match.