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The 16 SPARK Types

Every SPARK type is a blend of four dimensions — how you spark, settle, feel, and share a life. Your four letters name where you land on each. Explore all sixteen, take the free quiz to find yours, then meet your matches at an upcoming Tulsa dating event.

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Connection Pace
Flame (F)  ↔  Ember (E)
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Lifestyle Rhythm
Anchor (A)  ↔  Sail (S)
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Emotional Processing
Heart (H)  ↔  Mind (M)
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Togetherness Style
Weave (W)  ↔  Wave (V)
FAHW

The Devoted Romantic

Flame · Anchor · Heart · Weave
FAHV

The Passionate Individualist

Flame · Anchor · Heart · Wave
FAMW

The Strategic Soulmate

Flame · Anchor · Mind · Weave
FAMV

The Grounded Free Spirit

Flame · Anchor · Mind · Wave
FSHW

The Adventure Lover

Flame · Sail · Heart · Weave
FSHV

The Wild Heart

Flame · Sail · Heart · Wave
FSMW

The Visionary Partner

Flame · Sail · Mind · Weave
FSMV

The Dynamic Explorer

Flame · Sail · Mind · Wave
EAHW

The Steady Flame

Ember · Anchor · Heart · Weave
EAHV

The Gentle Independent

Ember · Anchor · Heart · Wave
EAMW

The Thoughtful Builder

Ember · Anchor · Mind · Weave
EAMV

The Self-Possessed Partner

Ember · Anchor · Mind · Wave
ESHW

The Warm Wanderer

Ember · Sail · Heart · Weave
ESHV

The Open Road

Ember · Sail · Heart · Wave
ESMW

The Curious Companion

Ember · Sail · Mind · Weave
ESMV

The Sovereign Spirit

Ember · Sail · Mind · Wave

Popular type comparisons

See how two SPARK types actually fit — where they align and where they balance each other, dimension by dimension.

The Thoughtful Builder × The Passionate IndividualistThe Steady Flame × The Dynamic ExplorerThe Strategic Soulmate × The Sovereign SpiritThe Self-Possessed Partner × The Devoted RomanticThe Grounded Free Spirit × The Curious CompanionThe Gentle Independent × The Adventure Lover

SPARK Types, Explained

What are the 16 SPARK types?
SPARK types are 16 dating personality profiles built from four compatibility dimensions. Each type is a four-letter code (like FAHW or ESMV) that captures how you connect, how you live, how you process emotion, and how you share a life. Your combination shapes who you naturally click with.
How do I find my SPARK type?
Take the free SPARK quiz. It is 24 questions and about five minutes, and it scores you across the four dimensions to reveal your type instantly, along with compatibility insights and conversation starters tailored to you.
What do the four letters mean?
Each letter marks where you land on one dimension: Connection Pace (Flame or Ember), Lifestyle Rhythm (Anchor or Sail), Emotional Processing (Heart or Mind), and Togetherness Style (Weave or Wave). Four choices combine into one of sixteen types.
Is one SPARK type better than another?
No. There is no best or worst type. The SPARK system is about fit between people, not a ranking. Every type has natural strengths and a set of types it tends to match especially well with.
How are SPARK types used to match me at events?
Before each Beyond The Sparks event we use every guest’s SPARK profile to build the guest list, so the room is filled with people you are already compatible with. That is how every guest leaves with at least one match, and most leave with two or three.
Can my SPARK type change over time?
Your type reflects how you connect right now, and that can shift as you grow or your season of life changes. You are welcome to retake the quiz anytime to see where you land today.
Take the free quiz to find yours