Where Compatibility Becomes Chemistry
Tulsa’s only compatibility-first speed dating and matchmaking events — built on science, delivered with warmth.
Our MissionTo remove the frustration from dating by connecting people through compatibility — not just proximity.
A Message
From Lee
I’m Lee, founder of Beyond The Sparks — a premium matchmaking and dating events company built on one mission: ending the modern dating crisis through clarity, psychology, and genuine human connection.
With over a decade of deep study in relationship psychology and firsthand experience working alongside the world’s top dating coaches, I bring rare insight to the dating space. I’ve generated over $1 million in sales and coaching, helping real people transform their love lives — not through tricks or tactics, but through understanding how attraction, communication, and compatibility actually work.
Beyond The Sparks was born from a simple but urgent truth: people aren’t failing at dating because they’re unlovable — they’re failing because nobody ever gave them a real roadmap. I’m changing that. Through curated events, AI-powered matchmaking, and expert coaching, I’m creating a world where men and women finally stop guessing and start connecting.
— Lee, Founder of Beyond The Sparks
The SPARK Compatibility System
Every event is powered by our proprietary SPARK framework — a four-dimension personality typing system built specifically for romantic compatibility. When you take our quiz, we map you across four real dimensions of how people connect, live, feel, and bond. This produces one of 16 unique SPARK types — and we use them to make intentional matches with a genuine shot.
What We Believe In
Everyone Gets a Match
Compatibility Over Chemistry
Your Privacy Matters
Built Across Oklahoma
Areas We Serve
Beyond The Sparks hosts compatibility-matched singles events across Oklahoma. Explore the metros we serve — or take the free quiz and we’ll match you into the next event near you.
Beyond The Sparks on the map
9905 S Pennsylvania Ave Ste A
Oklahoma City, OK 73159
- Mon – Fri
- 9 AM – 6 PM
- Saturday
- Event evenings
- Sunday
- Closed
Find Your Match
Take the free SPARK quiz and discover your compatibility type. Your next event match is waiting.
Take the QuizFrequently Asked Questions
Beyond The Sparks is a compatibility-first dating events company in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We host in-person speed dating and matchmaking events where every guest is pre-matched using the free SPARK compatibility quiz before they arrive — so you meet people you are actually compatible with, and everyone leaves with at least one match.
It is for singles across the Tulsa metro who want to date intentionally and meet compatible people face to face, instead of endlessly swiping on apps. Whether you are new to the local dating scene or tired of dead-end matches, the SPARK quiz does the compatibility work before you walk in the door.
Beyond The Sparks is an independent dating-event company based in Tulsa. We host events across the Tulsa and Oklahoma City metros — including Broken Arrow, Jenks, Owasso, Sand Springs, Edmond, and Norman — at welcoming venues that we choose for each event. Every event page lists its exact venue and address.
Dating apps leave the work to you — endless swiping, ghosting, and guessing. Beyond The Sparks flips that: you take one free quiz, we pre-match you with compatible people using your SPARK profile, and then you meet them in person at a real event. No app fatigue, no random strangers.
That is exactly who these events are built for. Because everyone is pre-matched on compatibility, you are not walking into a room of random strangers — you already share real common ground with the people you meet, which takes the pressure off. Come as you are.
Take the free SPARK quiz — it is about five minutes — then register for an upcoming event. Your compatibility profile is used to build the guest list, so a match is already waiting when you arrive.