Our Story
Beyond The Sparks
Compatibility-focused speed dating and matchmaking events in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
We believe that meeting someone great shouldn't feel like a gamble. Every event we host is designed so that every single guest leaves with at least one meaningful match — someone their profile genuinely aligns with, not just someone who showed up at the same table.
Our Mission
To remove the frustration from dating by connecting people through compatibility — not just proximity.
What We Do
The SPARK Compatibility System
Every Beyond The Sparks event is powered by our proprietary SPARK compatibility framework — a four-letter personality typing system built specifically for romantic compatibility, not just general personality.
When you take our quiz before an event, you're mapped across four real dimensions of how people connect, live, feel, and bond. This produces one of 16 unique SPARK types. We use those types to make intentional matches that have a genuine shot.
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Connection Pace
How quickly you dive into romantic connection — whether you lead with intensity or build slowly through trust.
Flame
Ember
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Lifestyle Rhythm
Whether you crave stability and routine, or thrive on spontaneity and new experiences together.
Anchor
Sail
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Emotional Processing
How you navigate feelings in relationships — intuitively through emotion, or thoughtfully through reason.
Heart
Mind
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Togetherness Style
How integrated you want your life to be with a partner — deeply woven together, or two whole individuals in rhythm.
Weave
Wave
How We Show Up
What We Believe In
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Everyone Gets a Match
Our guarantee isn't a marketing tagline. We design every event so that every guest receives at least one meaningful compatibility match — no exceptions.
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Compatibility Over Chemistry
Chemistry is the spark — but compatibility is what keeps the fire going. We use science-backed dimensions of romantic compatibility, not just surface-level attraction.
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Your Privacy Matters
We take data seriously. Your personal information and quiz results are shared only with the event organizer — never sold or marketed by third parties.
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Built for Tulsa
We're rooted in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Our events are local, intimate, and built for real people in the real world — not apps, algorithms, or impersonal matching services.
Ready to Find Your Match?
Take the free SPARK quiz and discover your compatibility type. Your next event match is waiting.
Take the Quiz →