Tulsa’s only compatibility-first speed dating and matchmaking events — built on science, delivered with warmth.
I’m Lee, founder of Beyond The Sparks — a premium matchmaking and dating events company built on one mission: ending the modern dating crisis through clarity, psychology, and genuine human connection.
With over a decade of deep study in relationship psychology and firsthand experience working alongside the world’s top dating coaches, I bring rare insight to the dating space. I’ve generated over $1 million in sales and coaching, helping real people transform their love lives — not through tricks or tactics, but through understanding how attraction, communication, and compatibility actually work.
Beyond The Sparks was born from a simple but urgent truth: people aren’t failing at dating because they’re unlovable — they’re failing because nobody ever gave them a real roadmap. I’m changing that. Through curated events, AI-powered matchmaking, and expert coaching, I’m creating a world where men and women finally stop guessing and start connecting.
— Lee, Founder of Beyond The Sparks
To remove the frustration from dating by connecting people through compatibility — not just proximity.
Every event is powered by our proprietary SPARK framework — a four-dimension personality typing system built specifically for romantic compatibility. When you take our quiz, we map you across four real dimensions of how people connect, live, feel, and bond. This produces one of 16 unique SPARK types — and we use them to make intentional matches with a genuine shot.
Take the free SPARK quiz and discover your compatibility type. Your next event match is waiting.
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